Like a Can Opener in a Worm Factory

*wry* for a start, Kate Moss and Dita are almost the samesize. Kate's breasts are a bit smaller, but they both have 23" waists and 33" hips. Dita justcorsets smaller, which it has o be said is not much help given the wibbles above!

i think the thing is if someone's after tits and arse they're never going to want me anyway, and i conform much less to social expectations of what a woman should be (mouthy intense feminist cow) than a curvy girl who doesn't, just for eg, kick up a fuss about films, talk too much, ask the wrong questions, tell te wrong truths. If i had a real job, came home and watched tv, cooked, smiled nicely, fed my family, painted my nails, was gentle and sweet and easygoing, i'd be much closer to conventional ideals of appealing femininity. And i'd still be the wrong shape. Ihave a much greater 'bollox to social norm' radar than a lot of people. Nobody diets for others, they diet for themselves, and sometimes that's to make themselves what others want. (see comment to El above).
i could be wrong, but i think the ad/media industry is still male-dominated?
*hugs*